Sometimes you have to lose everything before the penny finally drops... or... whatever. So here's what I figured out...

We're not evil sinners or perfect knock offs of god.
We let the world tell us whether we're saints or sex addicts.
Sane or insane.
Heroes or victims.
Wehther we're good mothers, or loving sons.
But we can decide for ourselves.

As a certain wise fugitive once told me, sometimes its not important which way you jump, just that you jump.